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		<title>By: rollos</title>
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		<dc:creator>rollos</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: kaat</title>
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		<dc:creator>kaat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 14:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sharon, your analysis of the importance of critical thinking is right on the money.

Now if high (or middle) schools would only explain the concept of &quot;debt&quot;!

I have a friend who wrote a brilliant Ph.D. thesis on the metaphysics of Aristotle, and who taught &quot;critical thinking 101&quot; to the freshmen. Yet he took the &quot;minimum payment due&quot; amount on his credit card bill literally, and only had a good look at his bill several years (and interest rate hikes) later. And was surprised, and needed someone to explain it to him.

Then also teach &quot;analogy&quot; and how a concept can be applied to many different but analogous situations, and maybe youngsters will get it that they are raking up debts against the future...

It&#039;s not so difficult. I&#039;ve done it as a TA in logic 101 classes. Took me twenty minutes. And 50% of my freshmen sat astonished. There was always one who complained to the Professor about my rant ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sharon, your analysis of the importance of critical thinking is right on the money.</p>
<p>Now if high (or middle) schools would only explain the concept of &#8220;debt&#8221;!</p>
<p>I have a friend who wrote a brilliant Ph.D. thesis on the metaphysics of Aristotle, and who taught &#8220;critical thinking 101&#8243; to the freshmen. Yet he took the &#8220;minimum payment due&#8221; amount on his credit card bill literally, and only had a good look at his bill several years (and interest rate hikes) later. And was surprised, and needed someone to explain it to him.</p>
<p>Then also teach &#8220;analogy&#8221; and how a concept can be applied to many different but analogous situations, and maybe youngsters will get it that they are raking up debts against the future&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not so difficult. I&#8217;ve done it as a TA in logic 101 classes. Took me twenty minutes. And 50% of my freshmen sat astonished. There was always one who complained to the Professor about my rant <img src='http://sharonastyk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Charles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 00:45:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This topic started me thinking of sympathy itself.

Internally, if we acknowledge and dwell on sympathy, there comes that nagging feeling we have to do something to correct the problem. Combine that with fear of our own future and there you have a good recipe to repress sympathy.

Maybe sympathy is easier to feel and more objective if we don&#039;t feel we have to fix it. Kind of like tough love for kids. Let them take their lumps and learn from it.

Practically, the sooner the general public sees people crashing hard the sooner they will begin to act responsibly.

In any case, if I use my imagination to create a model of the present or future where I apply my analysis, to some extent I can be very abstract and cold. I have a feeling that when it comes down to a real live suffering person in my face, I think the sympathy will be there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This topic started me thinking of sympathy itself.</p>
<p>Internally, if we acknowledge and dwell on sympathy, there comes that nagging feeling we have to do something to correct the problem. Combine that with fear of our own future and there you have a good recipe to repress sympathy.</p>
<p>Maybe sympathy is easier to feel and more objective if we don&#8217;t feel we have to fix it. Kind of like tough love for kids. Let them take their lumps and learn from it.</p>
<p>Practically, the sooner the general public sees people crashing hard the sooner they will begin to act responsibly.</p>
<p>In any case, if I use my imagination to create a model of the present or future where I apply my analysis, to some extent I can be very abstract and cold. I have a feeling that when it comes down to a real live suffering person in my face, I think the sympathy will be there.</p>
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		<title>By: Shane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 00:42:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think humans tend to put a moral or narrative cast on history too often. I think geography, biology and energy flows underpin everything and we put a familiar face on things to make them relatable. The real question is where the bonanza of energy and resources unleashed by the fossil fuel age would have gone if not to the middle class?

This brings me back to a thought I had a while ago in response to Sharon&#039;s  observation that we live in one of the most inequitable societies in history across the world. This made me wonder if inequality is also a mechanism for more efficient use of resources. You have to ask yourself- who uses more resources:

A- One million people with a thousand dollars each to spend

B- 999,999 people with one dollar to spend and one billionaire?

So in isolation the consumption of the middle classes of the western world looks incredibly wasteful. But when you consider the alternative of equally spreading that opportunity to consume resources around the worlds billions of poor you have to wonder if it in fact was the best possible solution at the time? The equitable alternative may have seen even more devastating environmental destruction, and the duration of the fossil fuel age may have been drastically shortened.

I think we still have a hard time getting our heads around what a monstrous bonanza the fossil fuel age was. That massive distortion of energy flowing through our societies had to go somewhere, and perhaps it was dissipated most effectively not through equality but through inequality, kind of like a flow of water cutting a deep and winding channel across a landscape.

You only have to look at the terror people instinctively feel about the chinese or indians becoming middle class en masse, and the current capacity for this swell of consumption in those societies to fuel the spawning of hundreds of millionaires and many billionaires in those countries. Before you get too down on the way things are you have to carefully think through the ways things would really otherwise be.

As for sympathising for the majority of people who are on track to suffer massively as the economy and energy system sputters and groans....for me I just take the view that they arent going to just suddenly and silently vanish away. Whatever happens we still have to live in the world they create, and we will have to deal with them day to day, so better learn how to work with them. They are a force of nature, like the weather.

I still try and tell my friends about what is happening (undeniable now), and where it is going. Despite being right on the money so far they still blink, or give a micro-expression (isnt it weird watching cognitive dissonance in real life, right in front of you?) and manage to avoid going through to the conclusion, then quickly change the subject. And to turn things back on myself, you have to ask, maybe that is the best possible way forward for them? Maybe seeing what is coming isnt necessarily an advantage for everyone. I would hazard a guess that most people couldnt psychologically cope with that burden (hell...most of us here seem to struggle with it as it is).

Shane in Australia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think humans tend to put a moral or narrative cast on history too often. I think geography, biology and energy flows underpin everything and we put a familiar face on things to make them relatable. The real question is where the bonanza of energy and resources unleashed by the fossil fuel age would have gone if not to the middle class?</p>
<p>This brings me back to a thought I had a while ago in response to Sharon&#8217;s  observation that we live in one of the most inequitable societies in history across the world. This made me wonder if inequality is also a mechanism for more efficient use of resources. You have to ask yourself- who uses more resources:</p>
<p>A- One million people with a thousand dollars each to spend</p>
<p>B- 999,999 people with one dollar to spend and one billionaire?</p>
<p>So in isolation the consumption of the middle classes of the western world looks incredibly wasteful. But when you consider the alternative of equally spreading that opportunity to consume resources around the worlds billions of poor you have to wonder if it in fact was the best possible solution at the time? The equitable alternative may have seen even more devastating environmental destruction, and the duration of the fossil fuel age may have been drastically shortened.</p>
<p>I think we still have a hard time getting our heads around what a monstrous bonanza the fossil fuel age was. That massive distortion of energy flowing through our societies had to go somewhere, and perhaps it was dissipated most effectively not through equality but through inequality, kind of like a flow of water cutting a deep and winding channel across a landscape.</p>
<p>You only have to look at the terror people instinctively feel about the chinese or indians becoming middle class en masse, and the current capacity for this swell of consumption in those societies to fuel the spawning of hundreds of millionaires and many billionaires in those countries. Before you get too down on the way things are you have to carefully think through the ways things would really otherwise be.</p>
<p>As for sympathising for the majority of people who are on track to suffer massively as the economy and energy system sputters and groans&#8230;.for me I just take the view that they arent going to just suddenly and silently vanish away. Whatever happens we still have to live in the world they create, and we will have to deal with them day to day, so better learn how to work with them. They are a force of nature, like the weather.</p>
<p>I still try and tell my friends about what is happening (undeniable now), and where it is going. Despite being right on the money so far they still blink, or give a micro-expression (isnt it weird watching cognitive dissonance in real life, right in front of you?) and manage to avoid going through to the conclusion, then quickly change the subject. And to turn things back on myself, you have to ask, maybe that is the best possible way forward for them? Maybe seeing what is coming isnt necessarily an advantage for everyone. I would hazard a guess that most people couldnt psychologically cope with that burden (hell&#8230;most of us here seem to struggle with it as it is).</p>
<p>Shane in Australia</p>
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		<title>By: Ani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 23:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>um Lydia- don&#039;t you think perhaps YOU&#039;RE being a tad judgemental?  I admit to my honest feelings- and recognize that they are sometimes not-so-nice- Mother Theresa I ain&#039;t- I&#039;m just human.....

And re:Cassandra-it has nothing to do with my ego- if you actually knew me you&#039;d understand that better- but everything to do with frustration over how more prepared we could all be for what is happening had others been willing to listen to all of us who have been trying to get the word out.

And yes, I acknowledge how difficult it is to figure out who is &quot;deserving&quot; and who isn&#039;t- and I guess maybe I can&#039;t fall back on the  definition of porn which I believe was actually something like &quot;I know it when I see it&quot;- I am willing to consider many to be &quot;deserving&quot; and worthy of sympathy- but there are so many who I have a hard time summoning up any such feelings for- and if that makes me a lousy human being- oh well- what can I say.......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>um Lydia- don&#8217;t you think perhaps YOU&#8217;RE being a tad judgemental?  I admit to my honest feelings- and recognize that they are sometimes not-so-nice- Mother Theresa I ain&#8217;t- I&#8217;m just human&#8230;..</p>
<p>And re:Cassandra-it has nothing to do with my ego- if you actually knew me you&#8217;d understand that better- but everything to do with frustration over how more prepared we could all be for what is happening had others been willing to listen to all of us who have been trying to get the word out.</p>
<p>And yes, I acknowledge how difficult it is to figure out who is &#8220;deserving&#8221; and who isn&#8217;t- and I guess maybe I can&#8217;t fall back on the  definition of porn which I believe was actually something like &#8220;I know it when I see it&#8221;- I am willing to consider many to be &#8220;deserving&#8221; and worthy of sympathy- but there are so many who I have a hard time summoning up any such feelings for- and if that makes me a lousy human being- oh well- what can I say&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Rosa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 19:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sg142 - I think that&#039;s and example of why all of our solutions have to focus on justice (not punishment, but justice). We should have good schools in all our neighborhoods, so people don&#039;t have to bankrupt themselves to get &quot;good schools&quot;. (Though I would also critique that argument by saying that many of the people I hear make it have not actually checked out the schools, they just check statistics or word-of-mouth, which often reflect racism more than any individual child&#039;s experience in the school).

I live in an &quot;inner city&quot; neighborhood and I was working in the libraries and schools as a volunteer, (and supporting them financially) long before I had a child. He will reap some of those benefits, but more importantly it&#039;s important not to abandon entire communities and their infrastructure even if you are not part of the community that&#039;s being abandoned.

Specifically for environmentalists, the very best way to combat suburban sprawl and all the wastefulness involved in it, is to support and invest in our urban neighborhoods, and to protect and invest in the small local schools in rural towns instead of allowing them to be swallowed up into busing-nightmare consolidated schools.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sg142 &#8211; I think that&#8217;s and example of why all of our solutions have to focus on justice (not punishment, but justice). We should have good schools in all our neighborhoods, so people don&#8217;t have to bankrupt themselves to get &#8220;good schools&#8221;. (Though I would also critique that argument by saying that many of the people I hear make it have not actually checked out the schools, they just check statistics or word-of-mouth, which often reflect racism more than any individual child&#8217;s experience in the school).</p>
<p>I live in an &#8220;inner city&#8221; neighborhood and I was working in the libraries and schools as a volunteer, (and supporting them financially) long before I had a child. He will reap some of those benefits, but more importantly it&#8217;s important not to abandon entire communities and their infrastructure even if you are not part of the community that&#8217;s being abandoned.</p>
<p>Specifically for environmentalists, the very best way to combat suburban sprawl and all the wastefulness involved in it, is to support and invest in our urban neighborhoods, and to protect and invest in the small local schools in rural towns instead of allowing them to be swallowed up into busing-nightmare consolidated schools.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Barbara Ehrenreich has maintained that the poor and middle class are both on the same side of the class line -- both of them work for people who own things (the original sense of bourgeois, IIRC). However, the middle class has been encouraged to believe themselves &quot;better&quot; than the so-called working class, and hasn&#039;t -- so far -- seen that they have significant common interest with the workers, and not so much with the owners.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Barbara Ehrenreich has maintained that the poor and middle class are both on the same side of the class line &#8212; both of them work for people who own things (the original sense of bourgeois, IIRC). However, the middle class has been encouraged to believe themselves &#8220;better&#8221; than the so-called working class, and hasn&#8217;t &#8212; so far &#8212; seen that they have significant common interest with the workers, and not so much with the owners.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather Gray</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather Gray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:17:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not for looking down on anyone just because he or she makes X amount of money.  I know of exceptions at various income levels, so I think trying to put blame or labels on different &quot;classes&quot; is pointless.

My parents both grew up poor -- in part because of the Depression, and in part because, in my mother&#039;s case, her father died when she was young and an uncle took over the finances (happens more easily than one might think, and especially in Chinese families in the 1920s and 30s). In my father&#039;s case his parents were both dead by the time he was 16 or so -- he joined the army as soon as he could not as a matter of duty (WWII) but also it was the easiest, surest way to support his younger sister.  Both worked hard, got through college, my mother ending up with two Masters and my father a Master and a PhD.   But all the education didn&#039;t necessarily teach how to manage money to pay bills and plan for the future.  My mom&#039;s great at it still, but my dad never really quite got it (which is why she eventually took over the money management).

I don&#039;t know if that&#039;s just the critical thinking skill that Sharon wrote about in this post, or also cultural/class issues as well.  My mother probably is a natural at it, but she was also taught about finances from when she was a little girl.  My dad was never taught about money, and the army really doesn&#039;t teach you about that either -- well, not back in the 40&#039;s anyway.

Having a good education and/or a good job doesn&#039;t mean people get all the skills needed to go with having more money.  And an economy that&#039;s going downward shows much more quickly who does and doesn&#039;t have the ability to adapt.

My brothers and I are &quot;middle class&quot;, but all on the more conservative side of spending on stuff, I guess. I think the eldest is best at saving, but we all tend to be into donating to charities and stuff, so none of us has as much in savings as we probably should.  It&#039;s really irked me that I&#039;ve had to cut back in recent years, but if we want to be helpful to our community in the future, we&#039;re going to have invest in some hard goods, classes, etc., to be better prepared to do that. Fortunately we can do some things that only take time, not money, so that&#039;s good.  I expect we don&#039;t look middle class to most of our friends though, living on the second floor of a farm house as renters, but that&#039;s not really a concern for me.

***
Then there are those folks who do know how to manage well and save, but it doesn&#039;t matter because of illness or injury.  We have  fundraisers in our area every year for families dealing with paying for cancer treatments, major surgery (heck, even &#039;minor&#039; surgery is incredibly expensive).  I remember reading about an elderly couple in the 1980s who had 40+K saved, plus a modest income/soc. security, and had to spend it all when the husband fell and broke his hip.

***
So yes, there are lots of people who should have saved more, driven smaller vehicles, etc.  But there are other reasons for them to be failing now besides being selfish or thoughtless as well.  I guess I&#039;m just not into generalizing...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not for looking down on anyone just because he or she makes X amount of money.  I know of exceptions at various income levels, so I think trying to put blame or labels on different &#8220;classes&#8221; is pointless.</p>
<p>My parents both grew up poor &#8212; in part because of the Depression, and in part because, in my mother&#8217;s case, her father died when she was young and an uncle took over the finances (happens more easily than one might think, and especially in Chinese families in the 1920s and 30s). In my father&#8217;s case his parents were both dead by the time he was 16 or so &#8212; he joined the army as soon as he could not as a matter of duty (WWII) but also it was the easiest, surest way to support his younger sister.  Both worked hard, got through college, my mother ending up with two Masters and my father a Master and a PhD.   But all the education didn&#8217;t necessarily teach how to manage money to pay bills and plan for the future.  My mom&#8217;s great at it still, but my dad never really quite got it (which is why she eventually took over the money management).</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if that&#8217;s just the critical thinking skill that Sharon wrote about in this post, or also cultural/class issues as well.  My mother probably is a natural at it, but she was also taught about finances from when she was a little girl.  My dad was never taught about money, and the army really doesn&#8217;t teach you about that either &#8212; well, not back in the 40&#8242;s anyway.</p>
<p>Having a good education and/or a good job doesn&#8217;t mean people get all the skills needed to go with having more money.  And an economy that&#8217;s going downward shows much more quickly who does and doesn&#8217;t have the ability to adapt.</p>
<p>My brothers and I are &#8220;middle class&#8221;, but all on the more conservative side of spending on stuff, I guess. I think the eldest is best at saving, but we all tend to be into donating to charities and stuff, so none of us has as much in savings as we probably should.  It&#8217;s really irked me that I&#8217;ve had to cut back in recent years, but if we want to be helpful to our community in the future, we&#8217;re going to have invest in some hard goods, classes, etc., to be better prepared to do that. Fortunately we can do some things that only take time, not money, so that&#8217;s good.  I expect we don&#8217;t look middle class to most of our friends though, living on the second floor of a farm house as renters, but that&#8217;s not really a concern for me.</p>
<p>***<br />
Then there are those folks who do know how to manage well and save, but it doesn&#8217;t matter because of illness or injury.  We have  fundraisers in our area every year for families dealing with paying for cancer treatments, major surgery (heck, even &#8216;minor&#8217; surgery is incredibly expensive).  I remember reading about an elderly couple in the 1980s who had 40+K saved, plus a modest income/soc. security, and had to spend it all when the husband fell and broke his hip.</p>
<p>***<br />
So yes, there are lots of people who should have saved more, driven smaller vehicles, etc.  But there are other reasons for them to be failing now besides being selfish or thoughtless as well.  I guess I&#8217;m just not into generalizing&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: sgl42</title>
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		<dc:creator>sgl42</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 17:54:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In addition, housing is most people&#039;s biggest expense, but it&#039;s also a package deal, due to the way most school&#039;s are run.  If you want your kids to go to a decent school, you have to buy in a neighborhood in a good school district, and that&#039;s usually more expensive than the poor school districts.  And some neighborhoods are simply not safe.  I generally avoid risking my life to save a few dollars.  So even if you&#039;d be happy with an 800 sq ft bugalow and a low cost of living, those choices may not be available in a safe neighborhood with a decent school for your kids.  (I&#039;m single, so this isn&#039;t me, it&#039;s just the typical family.)

It&#039;s very hard to untangle how much someone &quot;wasted&quot; and how much they tried their best under trying circumstances, at least on an aggregate basis.  On an individual basis, it may be possible, and probably desirable if you&#039;re trying to figure out how to allocate your own charity (money, time, garden produce, etc) most fairly.

--sgl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In addition, housing is most people&#8217;s biggest expense, but it&#8217;s also a package deal, due to the way most school&#8217;s are run.  If you want your kids to go to a decent school, you have to buy in a neighborhood in a good school district, and that&#8217;s usually more expensive than the poor school districts.  And some neighborhoods are simply not safe.  I generally avoid risking my life to save a few dollars.  So even if you&#8217;d be happy with an 800 sq ft bugalow and a low cost of living, those choices may not be available in a safe neighborhood with a decent school for your kids.  (I&#8217;m single, so this isn&#8217;t me, it&#8217;s just the typical family.)</p>
<p>It&#8217;s very hard to untangle how much someone &#8220;wasted&#8221; and how much they tried their best under trying circumstances, at least on an aggregate basis.  On an individual basis, it may be possible, and probably desirable if you&#8217;re trying to figure out how to allocate your own charity (money, time, garden produce, etc) most fairly.</p>
<p>&#8211;sgl</p>
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		<title>By: lydia</title>
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		<dc:creator>lydia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 16:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a very complex and difficult topic. Tell me, what set of criteria will be used to judge who gets sympathy for their choices? Who do we judge? The &quot;deserving middle class&quot; or the &quot;undeserving middle class&quot;? THAT IS A TERM THAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN USED FOR THE POOR-DESERVING OR UNDESERVING?
Oh sure, you can argue all day long about how compared to the third world we are so much better off, even our poor. That is like saying that because a women&#039;s husband doesn&#039;t beat her, she should stay with him, even though he is a complete and utter asshole. Where is the line drawn. How about someone who saved, but then blew it after a divorce? Or someone who conserved, but had no control of outside circumstances? Or those who blew it all and then somehow won the lotto and then began to save? Every case is different. Guess what, we are all in this together, this effects all of us, poor and middle class of all stripes, abilities, incomes and educations. The history of the world is all about the kings and queen and haves always trying to stay on top and keep the whole rest of society in the peasant have not bracket. Middle class America is a blimp in the time line of history. A republic if you can keep it, which it now seems we won&#039;t be able too, because of social engineering. The rich, and I use that loosely, maybe the powerful is a better term, will always seek to limit resources of all kinds to others so they can stay in power. Is this a surprise? Preparing is good to be sure, and if you have so called critical thinking skills and can see a trend coming, all the better- the old ant and grass hoper story-but many folks were not only not taught these things, they were lulled by propaganda, lies and other social engineering tools to do exactly what they did. Nothing. So now blame the victim. No, I am not for excusing everything. I am not for remaining ignorant. But if we are going to start judging others for lack of knowledge, who really is more deserving of the pointed finger? those who caused the crisis and took advantage of the &quot;weak&quot; or those who by their own fault or not were taken advantage of? Who is more at fault? Ken Lay or the ignorant Enron employees who trusted their company to do the right thing? They lost if all, shall we blame their for being stupid?

If you are Casandra and  frustrated for not being heard, that is more about your own ego of being right, than anything to do with the ones who would not listen. There is nothing more arrogant than &quot;I told you so&quot;. Those of us who &quot;get it&quot; and have been &quot;getting it&quot; for some time now, will not be spared a high electric bill any more than those who do not get it now. If there is a little money or resources, it may last a little longer, but the shit is going to hit the proverbial fan and all but the feudal lords are going to suffer. We need to take lessons from the French. Take them all down to the town square and cut their heads off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a very complex and difficult topic. Tell me, what set of criteria will be used to judge who gets sympathy for their choices? Who do we judge? The &#8220;deserving middle class&#8221; or the &#8220;undeserving middle class&#8221;? THAT IS A TERM THAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN USED FOR THE POOR-DESERVING OR UNDESERVING?<br />
Oh sure, you can argue all day long about how compared to the third world we are so much better off, even our poor. That is like saying that because a women&#8217;s husband doesn&#8217;t beat her, she should stay with him, even though he is a complete and utter asshole. Where is the line drawn. How about someone who saved, but then blew it after a divorce? Or someone who conserved, but had no control of outside circumstances? Or those who blew it all and then somehow won the lotto and then began to save? Every case is different. Guess what, we are all in this together, this effects all of us, poor and middle class of all stripes, abilities, incomes and educations. The history of the world is all about the kings and queen and haves always trying to stay on top and keep the whole rest of society in the peasant have not bracket. Middle class America is a blimp in the time line of history. A republic if you can keep it, which it now seems we won&#8217;t be able too, because of social engineering. The rich, and I use that loosely, maybe the powerful is a better term, will always seek to limit resources of all kinds to others so they can stay in power. Is this a surprise? Preparing is good to be sure, and if you have so called critical thinking skills and can see a trend coming, all the better- the old ant and grass hoper story-but many folks were not only not taught these things, they were lulled by propaganda, lies and other social engineering tools to do exactly what they did. Nothing. So now blame the victim. No, I am not for excusing everything. I am not for remaining ignorant. But if we are going to start judging others for lack of knowledge, who really is more deserving of the pointed finger? those who caused the crisis and took advantage of the &#8220;weak&#8221; or those who by their own fault or not were taken advantage of? Who is more at fault? Ken Lay or the ignorant Enron employees who trusted their company to do the right thing? They lost if all, shall we blame their for being stupid?</p>
<p>If you are Casandra and  frustrated for not being heard, that is more about your own ego of being right, than anything to do with the ones who would not listen. There is nothing more arrogant than &#8220;I told you so&#8221;. Those of us who &#8220;get it&#8221; and have been &#8220;getting it&#8221; for some time now, will not be spared a high electric bill any more than those who do not get it now. If there is a little money or resources, it may last a little longer, but the shit is going to hit the proverbial fan and all but the feudal lords are going to suffer. We need to take lessons from the French. Take them all down to the town square and cut their heads off.</p>
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