The Competence Project: How to Get Competent, and What You Get If You Do
Sharon November 20th, 2008
Ok, there was a lot of enthusiasm for my first post on my new project – people seemed to think I was starting a challenge. That hadn’t occurred to me, but heck, I’m for it – a new challenge it is. I challenge each of you to pick some area of your skill set that’s kind of weak and strengthen it. And when you feel like you’ve gotten competent, well, pick a new skill.
In the other thread, Dewey had the best idea (thanks Dewey!) – I’m going hand out official “Competence Project Merit Badges” (and hope various scouting organizations won’t sue me 
) to people who meet their goals. So post your first project, and I’ll have periodic threads in which people can be awarded their merit badges for whatever skill set you are trying to gain. Merit badges are completely virtual, of course, but if someone wants to make up a spiffy visual that people can add to their blog, I’m all for it.
Several people asked how they should go about learning their skill set, and I have a few suggestions for resources. I’m sure the rest of you have some good ideas as well.
1. Apprentice yourself to someone – this is by far the very best way to learn a skill, and it can save you an awful lot of trial and error. Got a neighbor who is going hunting, fixing his roof or crocheting a sweater? Why not ask if you can help out/get some lessons from them. Barter is a great tool here.
2. Take a class. Local adult education courses often cover things like this – check out their offerings. And stores that sell craft or specialty items often have classes as well – for example, Home Depot offers regular courses, knitting and quilting shops have knitting and quilting classes, etc… Just make sure that the class you are getting works with the skill set you are trying to gain – for example, if you want to learn woodworking with hand tools, make sure that you are getting a class that teaches this.
2. Use internet video – this isn’t an option for me or the rest of the world afflicted with dial up, but it is awfully nice for those who can take advantage. That way, you can actually see how to take your radio apart, or how the purl stitch works.
3. Visit your local library and take out books designed for children. Kids books have to cut the extraneous stuff out, and offer extremely clear language and direct instructions. I finally learned how to knit by using Melanie Falick’s excellent children’s book on the subject, _Kids Knitting_ and I’ve often found books for kids and teens clearer than those for adults.
4. Find comprehensive book sources - besides the ubiquitous “Dummies” series (which varies a lot in quality), Reader’s Digest has an excellent series of how-to books that cover a wide range of skills including _The Complete Do-It Yourself Manual_ (which a builder friend noted would allow you to pretty much build a house from scratch with), _Practical Encyclopedia of Crafts_ and _Skills and Tools_. I’m also partial to Gene Logsdon’s _Practical Skills_ book.
5. Specialize, specialize. I’m a big fan of the personal library if you have space. I find it really useful to have books (or material printed from the internet – never know when the service will go down, computer will be fried or the power will be out) that give detailed information and allow you to get more advanced. Honestly, we’re not all going to get really good at a lot of these things – most of us will have pretty basic skills. Still, I think if you have the money (and these are the sorts of books that often show up quite cheaply on the internet, and frequently at yard sales) it is good to have specialized books for skills you might want or need to invest some energy in. So, for example, I think that while a general crafts book will probably teach you to knit or purl, you might want a sock knitting book, or a mitten book if you knit a lot of them. Basic woodworking stuff in the above books will get you fairly far, but if you dream of building outdoor structures, picking a book that focuses on building tools for farm and garden would be good. I find it is easiest to push myself to pick up a skill if I’m doing something I really want to do – so if you can’t bear the thought of sewing the traditional pair of pajama pants as a first project, it might be worth investing in a book that will teach you to make something you really do want to make.
Ok, everyone sign up for their first merit badge project, and in a week or two, we’ll all update each other on how it is going. My first project? I’ve got a toilet that needs replacing. Let’s just say that the replacement toilet has been sitting next to the defective toilet for a very, very long time.
Sharon
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i started doing this a couple of weeks ago when i realized that i had a strong desire to learn to knit. my mom taught me when i was seven but i hadn’t picked up needles since then. now, after a lot of frustration and countless dropped stitches, i think i’ve got it. beginning next week i’m going to try my hand at more than just practice.. i’m choosing something simple for a first project, maybe a nice blanket.
Regarding your toilet: Years ago I had a young plumber out to fix something. I asked LOTS of questions, and he said I could do a lot of the plumbing work myself. He said that the Time-Life series on plumbing were what was used in the classes he took to become a plumber.
I’m going to continue to work on “purling”-just learned how- and then knit a pair of socks. So maybe by this time next year I’ll win my badge!
I’ve been trying to make some curtains since about July… I did one (of four) in about September and then my sewing machine had a hissy fit and kept snapping threads all the time and we’ve been glowering at each other sullenly across the room ever since. So I am going to make friends with my sewing machine again and actually make some damn curtains. And I want people to come and poke me with sharp things if I don’t.
I’ve been working on the purling, also, and am cautiously claiming victory.
For anyone out there struggling with purling, may I suggest you try the Norwegian method. The yarn is kept in back of the stitches as in the knit stitch, so you don’t have to fiddle with flipping it back and forth. It works especially well in combination with Continental-style knitting, and IMO this combination is possibly the easiest to learn if one already knows how to crochet.
I’m hard at work on my first project, a pair of 2×2 ribbed fingerless gloves. They are knitted flat and then seamed. My next challenge will be to work in the round…perhaps Ani and I will both win our sock badges this year.
My other Competence challenge is to learn gardening in the South, more specifically in North Carolina. We have heavy yet fertile clay soil and many years we have drought conditions. Would anyone out there have recommendations of books or websites specific to this type of gardening? Everything I’ve found so far relates to landscaping and ornamentals…I need to grow food!
I’m going to make a worm farm with my seven year old son. Will post diagrams if successful!
I’m going to learn how to dismantle an aircraft carrier and smelt it into post Peak Oil horse and
cow powered plough shares. This could take a while especially as we don’t seem to be
de-commissioning any of the half dozen or so nuclear aircraft carriers currently steaming around. In
the meantime I’m reawakening dormant vegetable growing instructions I got at my father’s knee.
I have two things that I want to get done this week. The first is to sew the pair of pj’s that have yet to meet the sewing machine. The second is to learn to use the circular saw to cut some lumber for a little carpentry project I have an idea for.
Beth – contact your county’s Extension Service, part of the state University system. They will have all the info you require, including soil testing, which varieties of veggies to grow in your area and Master Gardener’s to answer your questions and even classes and most is free or very low cost.
For myself, my hubby and I are in our 60s. He has always done all the repairs and even built our house – built, not contracted. I can cook, garden, sew, knit, crochet, etc. BUT I cannot do plumbing, electrical or car repairs. Looking to the future, I know I need to learn the basics so I can take care of myself if I need to. Guess plumbing will be first on my list since the kitchen faucet needs to be replaced. Wish me luck.
I started already also–I learned to knit last week, am working on purling this week. My first project is a scarf–I’m just waiting for yarn to get here. I’m working my way up to socks. I’m also taking a CPR for adults/kids/infants class next week, which was another of my Competence goals. I have a million of ‘em. I should make a list
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I’ll post a pic of the Fair Isle hat I am making in class its almost completed, speaking of completed that is something I need to work on.
I have more than 1/2 dzn knit project undone
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This is where I learned to make the heel in socks:
http://www.youtube.com/user/dorret
Beth in Massachusetts
conchscooter- I love it! let me suggest learning to smelt old container ships and oil tankers too- there are more of them available. Aircraft carriers are relatively hard to come by.
I’m learning various basic fix-it skills from my handy hubby. And, once we eventually get moved and my mother-in-law is living with us, I’ll have her teach me crochet and knitting. I need constant reminding so there’s not a lot of point in having her show me once every couple of months right now!
In the meantime, Sharon, maybe you and I can learn how to let go of all the extra stuff we don’t need. LOL!
Sharon – a suggestion for your readers: Learn beekeeping
I went to a beginner beekeeper class put on by our local beekeepers club (check with your local extension agent, most areas have a beekeeper club, and most do put on beginner classes) last February. Once you have learned the basics and made the initial investment for bees and hive (which comes in kit form, so that is another easy DIY project), you are set up to get FREE honey. (Check with your beekeeper club about the extraction equipment, many clubs have these available to borrow. Or, find a beekeeper with a larger operation, they’ll usually let you use their equipment in exchange for 10% of your honey.) If you get yourself set up with enough hives, you can not only supply all of your own honey but also have surplus to barter or sell.
Hives can be set up in places that won’t work for gardening. My bee yard is set up in a semi-shady area under a black walnut tree. (Don’t try growing a garden near black walnuts, the roots give out a substance that discourages plant growth.)
Need I mention that keeping bees will also assure you of having pollenators for your garden and fruit trees?
We need lots more backyard beekeepers – that is the future of beekeeping. The big migratory beekeepers have just become vectors for parasite and pathogen transmission, which is why their hives are dying off. Distributing a few hives here and there throughout the landscape is a much better way to go, but this requires lots of backyard beekeepers.
This is an important project for your own and everyone’s future. Please seriously consider it.
For Beth, I concur with Bellen! Your extension agent’s job is to provide instruction and guidance to home gardeners and landscapers. I took the Master Gardener course when I lived in NW Florida (just a BIT different from Western Massachusetts, where I am now, but the basic principles are always the same) and the volunteer Master Gardeners will also be a goldmine of practical advice.
For all the knitters – check around to find knitters’ circles in your area. My local Barnes and Noble has a group that meets on Monday evenings. If you need guidance on turning the heel of that sock, I expect somebody at a group like that could help. Also, if you have a yarn shop, the folks there could guide you. I’m lucky enough to live less than 10 miles from Webs (www.yarn.com) and the folks there can sort out any mess I’ve ever come up with – including “I started this vest 7 years ago and have lost the directions. How do I shape the neck?”
For my own project, I have already purchased an oil change kit for my lawn mower. My next door neighbor is a certified mechanic (teaches at a local Vocational school) and he has agreed to teach me how to change the oil myself.
Okay, I said I wasn’t going to do a challenge like this because I already know too much stuff and my brain is fogged up!! However, even though I know how to sew I don’t like it. Do you think I can learn to like it? I am trying to sew more, a couple skirts for my daughter and a couple aprons for Christmas gifts, not to mention some quilts which are easy straight lines at least. Getting that sewing done and not pulling my hair out with it will be my goal. Ha ha, we’ll see.
I have a short-term one and a long-term one:
Short-term: figure out how to dismantle the grain mill and install the corn/bean auger to start grinding the lovely bag of whole corn that came in the mail this week. Then, learn how to make cornbread in a cast iron skillet, just for the ethnic cuisine points.
Long-term: Take a first-aid course, preferably including CPR certification.
This weekend I will install a programmable thermostat – I have never wired anything, husband is an Electrical Engineer.
My DH is not the “posting” sort, but he does read your blog since I asked him to during your Adapting in Place class.
Your last Competence Project post did seem to inspire him, and this week he signed up for an EMT class. You won’t be able to give him a merit badge until May, when he takes the certification exams.
I have two Merit Badge-type projects right now. One is a building a worm farm out of plastic bins. The worms are waiting in the fridge.
The other is building a rain barrel. It’s winter, so the testing conditions are not ideal, but I am sure we will have a rainy day that is warm enough to see of the thing works/leaks.
I’ve been on an extended competece project for several years – my daughter’s preschool teacher asked if there was anything we *don’t* make ourselves, and I said there’s probably something (thrown pottery comes to mind – wheels are expensive). She countered with toilet paper, and I had to ‘fess up to the cloth wipes.
Short term – dyeing fabric. It’s my goal to spend less than $200 on ALL Christmas gifts this year – including family, our two kids, their friends, and a plethora of doctors, nurses, teachers, etc. To do this, I’ll be learning to dye fabric that I’ll make into scarves (knitting will take too long at this calendar date). My husband will be making turned bowls from wood he finds around town (whenever he sees the city taking down a nice tree, he stops and asks if he can have a big chunk. they almost always say yes). I’m going to start with “commercial dyes” (koolaid) and move towards natural dyes. I haven’t stockpiled onion skins and the like so I’m short on ingredients for natural dyes, seeing as we have a good snow cover now.
Also this week – learning how to make kombucha. I love the stuff and it’s $3.70/pint at the co-op. Managed to get a mother from a friend, and am hoping to save yself a lot of money.
Also this week – slaughtering a turkey. I’ve asked a local farmer if my daughter and I can help with slaughter. I’ve never done this before, but feel it’s something I should do. Plus, my daughter is ridiculously fascinated by how we get our food, and that extends to the slaughter/butchering process. The only hitch is that the farmer in question isn’t great at communication, and we might not connect in a timely manner.
Back when the ex and I were in business I was the sewing teacher. My hints for beginning sewing: relax and drop your shoulders, the machine is a tool and your friend, not your enemy. Never hurry and quit or take a break if you get frustrated. Do not pull on the fabric or sew over pins, hand baste if you have to. Do not invest in the perfect fabric/pattern the first few times around. Odd things happen and you might be disappointed. Standard American patterns DO NOT FIT. Cut out with large seam allowances and fit as you sew. Better yet, get Kwik-sew, Stretch and Sew, Sunrise Designs books and patterns at the thrift store . Do not attempt to hem jeans by gunning the machine and contorting your face. Ease the machine over the seams with little pillows of scrap fabric to flatten out the presser foot and do a few stitches turning the flywheel by hand if you have to.
I am not sure if I am up for a challenge right now. Maybe I will help with the aircraft carrier.
Okay, I have all the pieces to a simple bookshelf ready. I just have to bundle up and venture out into the freezing garage to cut the boards & sand them.
This isn’t complicated, and it’s something I’ve done before, but it’s something i’ve not done since I’ve been living with my partner because his criticism always makes me want to just throw up my hands and quit (and also, if I do that he will finish the project for me.)
The piles of books are making me INSANE and it’s only going to get worse at Christmas. So that’s my goal for the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas.
I’m perfecting my baking skills, just starting to work my way through some bread books, a few picked up from the weekly used book sale at our library. I’ve practiced all summer on challah/egg bread and last week decided to move on to a white and a wheat, both with different combos of flour, sweeteners and nuts added. I’ve also tried a rye this spring but that was way too rye-y even with some white flour added. Too scary. I’m holding back on that for a while. I love the details involved. I check the temp on the yeast with a candy thermometer! In fact, I’m scheduled to bake again and have to pick out today’s experiment. The family’s all onboard with this.
I just ordered a grain mill and a lot of rye. I am going to attempt to make all our family’s bread. Yikes.
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Wow! You are all so inspiring!
I’m already pretty competent at “indoor” things except plumbing and electrical stuff, but that’s where DH comes in
I will be getting 8 angora rabbits tomorrow, so my goal is to get a place ready for them and improve their quality of life. They’ve been sadly neglected in the last couple of years and their current owners are now ready to let me have them. I would love to sell the fiber to make a few extra bucks or barter for other things.
I would also like to research keeping bees for their honey and wax, but I’m not sure it’s practical on my city lot. So research in that area is next on my list.
More, more, more gardening! I need to have some shrubs and trees taken out to make way for more garden beds, so learning about that is another goal. Maybe I can get DH to teach me to use a chainsaw…
I’ve been sewing off and on for years but avoiding more complex sewing. Then I got interested in Victorian styles of clothing and bought some patterns. Currently I’m working on understanding the pattern directions and have cut out a vest and a riding skirt. Usually I do most of the sewing by machine and just do the fiddly bits and hemming by hand, but I’ve never done inset pockets or fancy collars before, so I’ve been working on the vest by hand — gives me time to see what’s going on and understand the pattern better. I actually cut out the riding skirt pieces first but the assembly was confusing so I’ve been re-reading the instructions and finding pictures of other Victorian clothing so I can see what things look like finished. Once the vest is done, I’m feeling more confident about making the skirt now.
It looks like we’re going to be slaughtering some chickens soon too. And we have one friend who’s interested in learning. L hasn’t done it in decades, so we’ve been reading up on it, to try to have everything in place. Not thrilled with learning this, but the layers are getting old, and it makes sense to save at least the breast meat for soups and stews (layers don’t have much on them). We’ll see how it goes.
I’m not up for electricity and plumbing competencies but I’m willing to take on something I’ve had in mind for a couple of months:
Baking decent bread loaves and pizza.
so, I’ll get to the flour I’ve got out for this very thing and see how competent I can become.
cheers,
Shamba
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Go to Naples and apprentice yourself to the local thieves. In Malaparte’s novel The Skin, the thieves dismantel an American vessel in one night, while the crew is on shore leave.
dismantle
Maybe I’ll learn to proofread first . . .
For all you beginning knitters, knittinghelp.com is a great resource with high quality videos. Also check with your local library. Our library system has several ongoing knitting groups.
This is really good timing for me, because I’ll finish classes in December and finally get to return to life. The skills I’ll be working on are: sewing, gardening, keeping bees, cooking/baking, and basic woodworking.
I just got my mom’s old sewing machine, and as soon as the part I ordered comes in, I’ll be able to start playing around with sewing. I really want to make clothes for myself, because I find it hard to find functional clothes that one can go into public in.
I grew up on an organic farm, but this will be the first time I’ll actually have a garden to work on my own. I am going to try to get as much food as possible from my little 1/3 of an acre lot (although gardening space is actually much smaller as the house is on that 1/3 acre, are as a number of trees), and grow as close to year round as I can.
I recently looked into top bar hives, and my mom has always wanted a bee hive at her place. So this year I’m going to really educate myself about bees and build a hive.
Cooking/baking I’ve been doing for awhile, and I’d say I’m competent, however, I’d like to improve. I’m going to stop using refined sugars and flours, as well as milk and I’m going to cut way down on the meat. I also want to make really good food, food people will be in awe of. We’ll see how that goes.
As for basic woodworking, well, I’ll be making that bee hive, and a number of cold frames, a chicken coop, and possibly a greenhouse. I think that’ll work my skill a little.
I have a lovely Jersey cow and have been making cultured butter, buttermilk, sourcream & keifer, but it is time to learn how to make cheese! I am not sure why I am so intimidated by this…
I also plan to get bees in the spring, I have taken one class but need to get my hive so that I am ready when our local bee keeper calls with a swarm. Again, scared but enthusiastic.
Knitting, it seems everyone knits. I have picked it up and put it down several times, why is this so hard for me? I found someone to hold my hand a bit while I learn, I start tomorrow.
There is a really cool book called *You Can Do It* The Merit Badge Handbook For Grown-Up Girls, by Lauren Catuzzi Grandcolas. It is amazing, practical and fun.
Traci
Vancouver, WA
Yippee! This might sound silly, but as an old 4-H kid I can be motivated to do a fair amount of work with the promise of a little pin (even a virtual one!). There was a book a few years ago that offered “merit badges for women” but it seemed to me that most of the skills promoted were silly. So you can count me in! I’m working right now on sewing and knitting.
Gail wrote: “Do not attempt to hem jeans by gunning the machine and contorting your face.”
No??? Aha, maybe that’s the problem! I’ve sewed several sets of small decorative pillowcases and two pairs of kitchen curtains (though never making the tiebacks) and have had fabric sitting around forever for bedroom curtains and an apron. I have always had problems with cutting fabric square and with the top layer of fabric getting behind and then bunched up in every seam I sew. Well, tonight as it happens I am going to take a two-hour pillowcase class at the fabric store, so maybe this will be my chance to sew something RIGHT for the first time.
As for my current pair of two-year socks, the second one turned out enormous at the ankle because I did it on a metal circular needle, but I’m going to finish anyway; my sweetie has large legs so it might be okay. I’ve finished the heel and gusset and am onto the foot now. I also knocked off halfway through reinforcing the heel on the first one, so will have to get back to it. My goal is to have the pair done by the end of the football season.
Oh gosh, what a great idea. This is exciting. There are so many things I want to do. I’ve already joined a group to learn to really quilt (ok, I’ve made quilts for years, but I usually just tie them off…I want to learn to quilt by hand, and this will help). Also, leatherworking. Hubby has done this for years, but I’ve never attempted it. We also will be putting in a shop in the back, for him to work out of, so maybe I can learn some carpentry skills. There will be walls to go up, a roof to go up, roofing materials to put on, siding, electricity, plumbing and then we hope to run the whole thing with solar, so will have to learn something about solar installation.
Ok, starting with quilting and leatherwork. Those are my two.
Sharon, how exactly are we to keep track of how we are doing, and how do we know when we have gotten to the point that we know enough about the subject?
Let me know. Going to go talk to hubby about those leather tools.
Gracie
I wrote that before your post was posted – didn’t mean to insult the book you were recommending, Traci! I just recalled that the book included various “social skills” and that where practical skills were involved, it didn’t provide enough detail to really let you learn well without having to go get other references. But that was my impression from looking at it in a store years ago – correct me if I’m wrong.
That used to be the nice thing about 4-H – the materials for each project both told you what minimum performance was to complete the project (e.g., knit 3 small items or one large) and gave you enough instructions in the booklet that you could do those things without other sources. The Boy Scouts also seem to have some pretty neat instructional materials.
Crap, I have too many projects I need to do. Here’s a couple that I should be able to do now or soon:
–install programmable thermostat (I’ve also never wired/rewired anything)
–read the entirety of “Where there are no doctors”
–re-read “Home Maintenance for Dummies” (a good dummies book) and then DO some of the things it says to do!
Dewey-I haven’t actually spent much time with the book, but I love the idea and layout of it. It really is geared more toward the mainstream now that I took it off the shelf. Good ideas for how to find support though.
~Traci
Whoops, that “Brian M.” post should’ve been “Robyn M.” How dare he use *my* computer? Er… did I say that out loud?
Beth,
The extension service is a great idea. For books, you might try looking at some written for west of the Cascades (a mountain range in Oregon) — I’m especially thinking of Steve Solomon’s Growing Vegetables West of the Cascades. Obviously, you aren’t here, but the gardening conditions sound similar. We also have a lot of heavy clay here. It rains for about six to 9 months of the year, and then doesn’t rain for two or three months. Solomon talks about how to garden under those conditions.
A good friend has been telling me to learn to knit for a couple of years, and I kept saying, I have enough half-finished projects around as it is. Yesterday we and a third friend had scheduled a get-together, and she informed me they’d be teaching me to knit. Then she marched me down to the local knit shop for yarn and needles. So I guess I’m in the new skill challenge, too! Was excited to find wool yarn produced in-state, by a ranch committed to sustainability — and it’s lovely stuff.
For the first hour and a half, the process made no sense! Even when the stitches worked I couldn’t figure out how or why. But it finally started to click, and now I’m excited about it.
Also on the competency project; getting better at making quilts and clothes. Have made a couple of shirts for my husband, and a dress for me, but it’s a struggle. I plan to spend a lot of time this winter sewing. After I finally finish preserving quinces and green tomatoes, and pressing cider. Running horribly late this year.
Getting — and keeping — my yard under control is on the list, too. The blackberries tried to eat it this summer, and I must reclaim it. I also want to learn to maximize production from my fruit trees, and learn to successfully grow citrus in this cold dark northern place, since in a fit of determination, I bought a lime tree in September. Local citrus fruit would be marvelous, and apparently some people are managing it, so presumably, I can, too. Theoretically.
My Merit Badge challenge is for learning pattern drafting (sewing). I want to be able to look at a dress or coat and knock off a reasonable facsimile.
There is so much I already know how to do, maybe getting better at everything is a good start.
i’m going to replace my laptop keyboard. i started researching this yesterday after a local computer store told me to buy a keyboard off ebay and bring it in for them to replace.
i watched a few youtube videos and then looked up my computer’s manual and read the directions. it seems they want to charge me $50 to pry off a piece at the top, unscrew 2 screws, unplug the keyboard, plug in the new one, screw back in the 2 screws and pop the top piece back on. seriously?! i think i am capable enough of handling that on my own.
waiting for the new keyboard to arrive…
Hoo boy. Lots of inspiratioinal ideas here! There are so, so many skills I need to learn or polish. Back at my blog, I said I wanted to start with carpentry. So carpentry it is. My ultimate goal for the foreseeable future is to build my own chicken tractors. However, I am going to start smaller. There are a few smaller projects that need to be done in and on the house.
First of all, it’s got to be pressure washed. (Because some of the work will require caulking and I just feel it’s silly to do that before giving the thing a good scrub down outside.)
So, that’s what I’m going to do this weekend. I don’t even own a pressure washing. I’m going to see if I can borrow one. If not, I will just wash it down with a hose and a brush. That’s step one.
All right… make an assertive statement here; don’t beat about the bush. “I am GOING to clean the outside of the house this weekend.” And I will post about it in my blog. Hope there’s no bloopers.
Knit socks. I’ve tried and stopped. Tried and stopped. This time I’ll not stop. Um, I guess that means I’ll have to learn to fix mistakes first. So goals are:
Learn to fix knitting mistakes
Make socks.
and gail – “Do not attempt to hem jeans by gunning the machine and contorting your face. ”
Really? Are you sure? That’s always been my tactic!
Oh, also wanted to mention I’ve contacted my local extension office to ask about their Master Gardener classes.
… seems I could teach them a thing or two about competence. It’s been a week and I’ve gotten one email back letting me know my email was being forwarded to someone else. (sigh)
Can I have my badge already??? I made a promise to myself that I would learn how to knit socks before the end of the year, and I’ve now successfully completed TWO PAIRS. It’s not often that I get to be proud of myself like this.
However, I wish that someone would have told me how addicting sock knitting is BEFORE I got into it.
next up: CPR/First Aid recertification; beekeeping! I must be sure to not neglect all the other things that need to be done while I learn something new and exciting.
OK, sock knitting people– I have been knitting socks since I was eleven. What are your problems? You can ask me and I will try to help you as much as I can without seeing your fingers and helping you move the yarn. For starters, let me say that if you can relax, it will all go better.
Also, everyone makes at least one loser sock before they get it. Just accept that your first pair might suck, and know that you’ll do fine.
This goes right along with another challenge I’ve been failing at lately (Doing Not Thinking Challenge) and the deadline is quickly approaching and I know I am not going to be done with one particular goal:
I want to learn to build a stanchion for the cows. I suppose this is carpentry and I am not good at carpentry. I hope to accompish this before April (cows’ due dates).
I also want to quilt. It can even be simple quilting! I have a friend in her sixties that is an accomplished quilter, although she sends out most of her work for the quilting part these days. She has shown me briefly how to hand quilt, but I am sure she would mentor me further. I’ll set my goal for the pc work to be done by the end of February and the quilting done by summer.
(If I don’t set goals I can be sure I will not earn my badge, LOL!)
Why thank you! I’ve knitted three and a half pairs over the past 12 years or so of trying and all of them sucked, so I can surely use the help. I have at least two problems:
1. Even though I use needles a size smaller than recommended, the sock comes out big and loose. I can’t physically endure the sort of knitting where you yank the yarn after each stitch until it’s so tight you have to pull it off the needle with your fingernails, and can barely get a needle back under it; I either knit semi-loosely, or not at all. This is much less of a problem for a scarf or hat.
2. I can’t purl worth a damn. I’m left-handed and knit in the continental style, holding the working yarn over my left index finger. To purl, as instructed by every book I’ve ever seen, I put the right needle through the stitch in front, with yarn held in front, then loop the yarn behind and around the needle tip from top to bottom. This requires me as a lefty to hold my index finger stiff and pulled back, then wave it in an arc and twist my hand for each stitch, which is slow and rapidly becomes painful (and leaves my purling quite loose, too). A woman at work says she purls by holding the yarn up behind the needle tip from bottom to top then catches it and pulls it through like for a knit stitch, with no loop around the needle, which looks easier. But it also looks like it must, relative to the book method, introduce a twist into every stitch. Which is correct?
3. Oh yes, and I can’t rip back or pick up stitches effectively, so if I make a mistake, I’m in deep doodoo.
I love the comment section of Sharon’s blog almost as much as her writing itself! Thanks everyone, for contributing.
Gail, thanks for the sewing tips. I actually am using the same sewing machine I got so frustrated with as a teen-ager, since my mom gave it to me when she got a new one. I have always blamed that machine for my sewing issues! However, this past spring I had it cleaned and repaired a bit and I vowed that when it came back from the shop it was going to work beautifully for me and we’d have a whole new relationship. Well, my positive thinking has helped a lot for the few times I’ve used the machine since then. I’m really working on this issue, I am!
I think I will use patterns, though. I am far too visually-spatially challenged to make up my own.
And yes, it helps to relax with all these things. Knitting, sewing, all of it. I work on that too. Now I find knitting to be so relaxing, but it didn’t start out that way. I am a fairly tense perfectionistic type by nature.
I love making socks on two circular needles (not one! doesn’t work with only one….) because I don’t like all those double pointed needles poking at me, and I worry too much about losing the yarn off the ends of them. There are a lot of good books on knitting socks on two circs. I do not like trying to knit two at a time on two circs, however, so I gave that idea up even though it sounds great.