Real Life Food Storage Stories
Sharon May 19th, 2009
The single most gratifying thing that happens in my writing life is a particular kind of email. In it, someone writes and tells me that they have just endured a difficult situation, whether a personal crisis or a regional one, and that because of the stuff I’d written about preparedness, they did ok. These emails are sent to me privately, and I can’t repeat most of them in detail, but I thought I’d (anonymously) give a sense of the range of stories that I’ve been told, and the range of situations in which food storage and preparedness have been helpful. All of these are real cases, and I post them because I think it is important to see how common it is to need a reserve of food or basic goods - that is, some of us really think of this as extreme behavior, or as something unusual, but in fact, putting by for difficult times is the most ordinary and normal thing imaginable.
While some of these are stories of major disasters, others are stories of increasingly common personal disasters - job loss, falling through a safety net, injury or illness. The most common reasons for needing a reserve of food is simply that bad thing happen to us. And implied in choosing *not* to have a reserve is a level of dependence - it says “I’m just going to cast myself on the charity of others.” Now there is nothing wrong with needing charity - I believe strongly that in a large measure the reason for government is to provide a safety net. But along with one’s absolute right to take help when needed is the responsibility to do what you can to avoid taking help, particularly in times like these, when more and more people do need it. There is never any dishonor in needing the food pantry. But I think there is some in choosing, when you have a choice, not to protect yourself and your own, and thus, falling back on what are supposed to be solutions of last, rather than first resort.
I recently got an email from a single Mom. She relies on food stamps and child support to supplement her small income and make sure she can feed her three children. Well, one month, her ex didn’t pay up, and the food stamp payment didn’t arrive because of an administrative error. She had no money at all after the utility bill and house payment were made. While she wouldn’t have starved, she would have had to spend much of her time going around to relief agencies begging for help, and they would have gone hungry - except that she had managed on her small budget to accumulate a large food reserve. While she missed fresh food, her family ate, and she was spared the panic that she would have felt otherwise. She said her children really enjoyed the meals she cooked.
Last year, during the Midwest flooding, I got several emails from people who told me how helpful it was to have a reserve of food, but in particular, water. Because water was contaminated in so many areas with agricultural chemicals and manures, which can’t necessarily be fixed by boiling, one person wrote me that their water was actually nauseating in smell. There was no way his young son or pregnant wife was going to drink that stuff, so he was enormously grateful that they did not have to, that they had enough water stored to get through until the supplies stabilized. He also wrote of how shocked his neighbors were when he offered to have them over for a barbecue - they were stunned that they still had food enough to share a week into the event.
A woman wrote me last fall from Houston, where many people were without power for several weeks after Hurricane Ike. She said she was grateful for the stored food - because the grocery stores had no power, they were accepting only cash, and she and her husband had run out of cash a few days after the crisis. They lived on their food, and had enough to share with their neighbors, also out of food. Their only other chance would have been to be shuttled out of town to a relief center, and none of them would take their pets. This meant they could stay safely home with their animals.
Another correspondent told me that her daughter was born two months early, from an emergency C-section due to a placental abruption. Both she and her daughter were in danger, and her daughter remained hospitalized for several weeks. Meanwhile, it was lambing season on their farm, and while she was spending all day at the hospital pumping breastmilk, and recovering from surgery and blood loss, her husband had the care of their young son during the busiest season of the year. She told me that the home canned food she put up was their lifeline - the meals were boring, but they were already ready, and she didn’t have to feel guilt about opening jars of homemade applesauce and beef stew for her husband and son, when that was all she could manage. They did not shop for a full month, and they were fine.
I’ve had a number of correspondents from the ice storms that hit this past year in the Northeast and in Kentucky. One of them told me that she and her husband were out of reach of any transport because of downed trees for 11 days. They had no power, and thus no well pump, and they and the three other families on their road lived pretty much entirely on their stored food and water, cooking on their woodstove. No one else had anything prepared at all.
I’ve heard many stories about the value of food storage in job losses lately as well. A man emailed me to tell me that both he and his wife, employed by the same company, were laid off in January on the same day. Their income dropped by 50% that afternoon, and he said that food storage made it possible for them to make reasoned choices, to take their time and figure out what to do, rather than going immediately into default on their mortgage. If they’d had to buy food, they wouldn’t have been able to keep up the mortgage payments. As it was, they cut back on everything else, and have been able to stay in their house until the school year was over and also actually sell their house, rather than losing it.
In another case, a woman writes from a place where she’s one of many people in great distress. She’s raising her grandkids, because her daughter is mentally ill, and she hasn’t had a job since November. The food pantries don’t have enough to go around, and her neighbors who go to the soup kitchens say you have to get there early, and stand in line, because the soup runs out when the lines are still backed up around the corner. My correspondent has enough money for unemployment to pay her rent, but not enough for much in the way groceries, and not enough in food stamps to get by, and she doesn’t want her grandkids to join the kids in her neighborhood who only get to eat at school. But she’s got a big pantry, and even though she’s been relying on it for months, she says there’s still enough to invite in the neighbor kids after school for cookies and milk - the milk is powdered, the cookies have fewer chocolate chips in them than they used to. But she’s keeping her grandbabies fed, and she’s making sure that some of the hungry kids in her neighborhood get something to eat other than tater tots on a tray once a day.
I hope for everyone that none of us ever need our food storage, that it is always an agreeable luxury. But the odds are good that it won’t be for everyone. And I hope maybe knowing that you can need it tomorrow, not just in the event of some huge disaster, makes the project seem less abstract and more real.
Sharon